Matt: Don’t be a spectator in your own life, go and do and be. I try to live by doing things instead of saying I will do something.

Val: I think you should only do in life what you want to do. If something happens where the bad times are more than the good times, you should let something go. We haven’t ever needed to do that. We have always had good times. Once or twice a year, we get mad at each other.